Random Ramblings

December 31, 2005

Anti-gay forces hard at work in 2005

TuffGirl rambled @ 3:08 am

“The literal blood of the thousands of gay people physically wounded by hate … is on the hands of Jerry Falwell, James Dobson, Tony Perkins, and so many others who spew hate for partisan gain and personal enrichment.” — Matt Foreman, President National Gay and Lesbian Task Force

The American Family Association. Focus on the Family. The Liberty Counsel. Family Research Council.

These are just a few of the names of anti-gay, evangelical Christian-based organizations that have cozied their way into the breast pocket of the Republican Party.

Over the past year their efforts against the LGBT community have intensified as has their control and influence over the White House, U.S. House and Senate. Here’s a look at some of their efforts:

• The American Family Association (AFA)
In January the crackpots at AFA threw a hook into SpongeBob SquarePants and the producer of a pro-tolerance music video for kids, which features scores of children’s TV heroes ranging from the Muppets to SquarePants. The video itself involves a rendition of the 1979 hit song “We Are Family,” that Nile Rodgers co-wrote, and contains no reference to gay rights or sexual orientation. In a detailed article by the editor of its monthly journal, AFA insisted the endeavor has a pro-gay subtext. “On the surface, the project may appear to be a worthwhile attempt to foster greater understanding of cultural differences,” wrote Ed Vitagliano. “However, a short step beneath the surface reveals that one of the differences being celebrated is homosexuality.”

• Focus on the Family (FOF)
In November Macy’s stood by helplessly as FOF tried to distribute 5,000 “stress balls” during Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade to promote a website it operates that claims homosexuality is a disorder that can be changed through faith. The undertaking, overshadowed by a balloon accident, is part of a major effort by FOF to reach a wider audience during the holidays. Each ball carries the name of its advice site, www.troubledwith.com.

Throughout the year FOF has continued its make no bones about it attack on LGBT familes with programs like its Love Won Out “ex-gay” ministry and its continuing support of constitutional amendments banning same-sex marriage throughout the country.
During the controversy surrounding the Supreme Court nomination of Harriet Miers, FOF’s James Dobson suggested on his radio show that the White House had made guarantees to him that Miers would oppose gay rights and abortion.

In January Dobson turned his sights on Canada, attacking the country verbally for allowing same-sex marriage. In May, FOF ceased doing business with Wells Fargo because they felt the company was too gay supportive. Their latest effort was a call for a boycott of Ford Motor Company because of that company’s support of various LGBT events and advertising in gay publications. Although FOF initially cried victory when Ford agreed to their terms, reaction from LGBT activists prompted Ford to reverse its decision and agree to continue advertising and supporting LGBT community events. AFA’s Donald Wildmon’s final words on the matter: “Continuing the boycott is still a consideration.”

• The Liberty Counsel (LC)
Under the direction of Matt Staver, a graduate of the University of Kentucky Law School who holds a Master’s Degree in religion, the Liberty Counsel may perhaps be best described as the antithesis of the American Civil Liberties Union. In October LC had their hands in Florida’s efforts to ban same-sex marriage. They’ve battled same-sex marriage in practically every state of the union and gone gung-ho after companies offering benefits for domestic partners as well as states attempting to enact hate crimes laws.

• Family Research Council (FRC)
On the sugar-coated website, the statement of purpose for the The Family Research Council says they “champion marriage and family as the foundation of civilization, the seedbed of virtue, and the wellspring of society. FRC promotes the Judeo-Christian worldview as the basis for a just, free, and stable society.” Blah, blah, blah. Dig a little deeper and you’ll find a hate-filled organization under the direction of Tony Perkins, a man committed to stepping in the way of any civil rights advancements for LGBT Americans.

Their most successful anti-gay family activities have come from their “Justice Sunday” television productions, which are shown via satellite across the country and frequently feature the worst of the most conservative politicians. In April Justice Sunday trotted out Bill Frist to get their double-speak gay hate speech over the airwaves. Comic Bill Maher summed up the group’s agenda succinctly in an interview with Jay Leno: “‘Activist judges’ is a code word for gay. The judges verbally tarred and feathered are those who have decriminalized gay sex as they once did abortion and [those] who countenance marriage rights for same-sex couples.”

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December 30, 2005

There is something that I honestly don’t understand…

TuffGirl rambled @ 9:05 am

Why are people so frightened of bats? I don’t mean an individual person’s phobia, I can more then understand that. I have a debilitating phobia of bees, wasps, hornets, and anything that looks like them. But people seem, in general, afraid of bats. Grown men will cringe and flinch away from them, refuse to touch them. My own mother tried to, literally, climb my back when a bat was lose in her house.

Personally, I think they’re cute and I like the sounds they make. I caught the bat that so freaked out my mother, and let it go outside, and people asked me why I didn’t just kill it. On an animal cops show, there was a bunch of bats that had taken up residence in a tree in the middle of a neighbourhood. Whenever the bats left the tree, grown men and women freaked out, screaming and ducking.

Okay, I know people don’t want a bat in their hair. That happened to me when I was 12 and had hair to my waist. Not fun. But the poor bat was scared shitless too.

So, are you afraid of bats? If so, why? I honestly would like to know.

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December 22, 2005

Why I don’t call myself an Animal Rights activist

TuffGirl rambled @ 3:57 am

Animal Welfare vs. Animal Rights

An important distinction to make when dealing with animal issues is the difference between animal welfare and animal rights. After learning the difference between the two philosophies, it is easier to distinguish between organizations that directly help animals and those who wish to end the use of animals.

Animal Welfare - based on principles of humane care and use. Organizations who support animal welfare principles seek to improve the treatment and well-being of animals. Supporting animal welfare premises means believing humans have the right to use animals, but along with that right comes the responsibility to provide proper and humane care and treatment.

Animal Rights - organizations that support animal rights philosophies seek to end the use and ownership of animals. Animal rights organizations seek to abolish by law: the raising of farm animals for food and clothing, rodeos, circuses, zoos, hunting, trapping, fishing, the use of animals in lifesaving biomedical research, the use of animals in education and the breeding of pets.

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December 16, 2005

Busy Day!

TuffGirl rambled @ 12:29 am

Whew! What a busy day today was. Mom and I left the house at 10:00 this morning, and didn’t get home until nearly four. We did a ton of shopping.

We went to, in order:

The butcher shop
Food Basics
CostCo
Chapters
Dairy Queen
Giant Tiger
Penningtons
Price Chopper

Man, I was tired and sick of shopping after all that. I got some great things, though. I got something for Peter to give to his dad for Christmas, and stuff for the two Angel Tree kids I got yesterday. With all that done, all I have left to get is some things for Peter’s stocking and I’m through. Yay!

While at Chapters, I picked up Brokeback Mountain. It’s just a short story, so the book was tiny. I read it in less then an hour, and then sat and bawled. Oh God it was good. I can’t wait to see the movie. What a wonderfully written, gripping story. It really hits hard, and stays with you for a long time after reading it.

I need to get some stamps, and send out my Christmas Cards. Before it’s too late to get them there by Christmas. ;)

My other mom wanted to know what I wanted for Christmas, and I had no idea. (She threatened to beat me.) But, now I know what I want. There’s a new Dean Koontz book out, called Odd Thomas. I’m dying to read it! Not sure how much it is, but I’m going to mention that I want it, if it isn’t too much. Assuming, of course, that I remember to tell her. ;)

Time for bed, now. *yawn!* I’m beat.

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December 14, 2005

Random Notes

TuffGirl rambled @ 5:47 pm

Oh my God, my head is pounding. I might have to go lay down, if the painkillers don’t kick in soon. Ugh.

On a brighter note, I got even more shopping done today. I got books for all of Janet’s kids, two things for my other mom, a bunch of stuff for Cady’s stocking, a couple books for Peter, a calendar for my mom, and a Nascar magazine for dad (though I gave him that already so it doesn’t really count as a gift).

Peter really likes the jingle hat I got at the Dollar Store.

For myself, I got two more Scent Stories disks. =) I got: Strolling Through the Garden, and Exploring a Mountain Trail. Mmmm. The Mountain Trail one is playing now, and it smells so good.

Now I just need stuff for Peter’s stocking, and something from him to his dad, and I’m done!

Oh! Or not. I got two more tags off the angel tree, because there were so many tags still there. I got a one-year-old boy and a one-year-old girl.

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Wednesday Weariness

TuffGirl rambled @ 11:01 am

I haven’t written in a few days. There hasn’t been too much to write about, really. I’m irritated, because I ordered a used book, and an empty envelope showed up. I emailed the sellers twice, with no reply, so I filed a claim with Amazon. I needed that book, too, for the point I’m at in my novel. The book was Scene of the Crime: A Writer’s Guide to Crime-Scene Investigations. I don’t know if I should order another one, or wait to see what Amazon says, or what. Grrr. I need that book, dangit. And I can’t just go to Chapters and get one, it’s out of print. They have lots on Amazon.ca, but I don’t want to buy another one, until I know what’s going on with the one I ordered.

On the Christmas shopping front, I have more to buy then I realized. I need to buy gifts for my friend Janet’s kids. So what I still need to get, is:

  • Something for Dave from Peter
  • Something for Donald
  • Something for Theresa
  • Something for Isaac
  • Something for Daniel
  • Something for Samantha
  • Stocking Stuffers

I’m going to try to get all that done tomorrow. Also, I need to drop gifts off at the Angel Tree in Argyle Mall.

I’ve been working on some Christmas scrapbooking layouts, getting some set up so all I have to do is add pictures in. I have four done so far, and two more planned. Once I actually have Christmas photos, however, I’m sure I’ll be doing tons more. I really enjoy scrapbooking. It’s a lot of fun. Sometime I’ll get up the nerve to try it with paper, rather then doing it all digitally. I love the undo button, though. ;)

Ahh, mom says she’ll take me out to Argyle Mall after the Price is Right is over. Good, I want to go to Coles while I’m out there. They have some good deals.

TTFN! (Ta Ta For Now) ;)

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December 8, 2005

Indigo Prophecy

TuffGirl rambled @ 12:32 pm

Peter, being the sweetheart that he is, went out and spent a bunch of his money to buy me a game I very much wanted for my birthday. Belatedly, but hey. ;) I told him that he shouldn’t have spent that much money on me, and he replied, You’re worth it. What a love. I’m really excited about this game. I haven’t had a chance to play it, yet, but I’m installing it when I’m finished this post.

Indigo Prophecy
In Indigo Prophecy, New York City is stunned by a series of mysterious murders, all following the same pattern: ordinary people are killing absolute strangers in public areas. Lucas Kane becomes another one of these murderers when he suddenly kills a stranger in a men’s bathroom. Hunted by police, Lucas must uncover the dark forces behind his crime before being incarcerated for life.

On the Christmas shopping front, I’m even closer to being finished. I still need:

  • Something for Dave from Peter
  • Something for Dad Smith from me
  • Stocking Stuffers
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December 5, 2005

TuffGirl rambled @ 6:05 pm

Something else that annoyed me about Goblet of Fire. We didn’t get to see Snape’s Dark Mark. In the book, he showed it to Fudge, to prove the the Dark Lord was back. In the movie, it seems that Harry’s word was just taken on trust.

I wanted to see Snape’s, dangit.

*sulks*

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Butterbeer!

TuffGirl rambled @ 2:25 pm

Ingredients:

  • 1 pint (0.57 litres) vanilla ice cream (softened)
  • 1/2 stick butter (softened)
  • 1/3 cup brown sugar
  • 2 tsp. of cinnamon
  • 1 tsp. grated nutmeg
  • 1/4 tsp. ground clove
  • 1 imperial quart (1.1 litre) apple cider

Directions:

    1. Cream butter, sugar and spices together.
    2. Beat in the vanilla ice cream.
    3. Re-freeze the mixture.
    4. Scoop out the frozen mixture into a glass.
    5. Pour hot Apple cider over the ice cream mixture.

Optional: add an ounce (30 g) of rum for an adult treat.

Mix and drink!

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December 4, 2005

Goblet of Fire!

TuffGirl rambled @ 10:13 pm

So I saw Goblet of Fire today, and it was great! Oh man, was it ever great! I want to see it again, and I’m certainly going to buy it when it comes out. My only complaint: not enough Snape. And the one big Snape scene there was, some kid in the theater started wailing. Grrrr. This little kid was running up and down the aisles making a racket. Mom got up to go to the loo, and when she was walking down the aisle, the little girl ran to her, arms open to be picked up. Anyone could have snatched that kid. I swear, some people shouldn’t breed.

Camo!
But the movie was great, and mom and I had a fun time together. =) I really enjoy shopping and talking with her about stuff. I can really talk to her, too, and she listens. We went to Wal-Mart, (the place was packed), and then to the movie, and then we had lunch-supper at Burger King, and then we went to Giant Tiger. We wondered around there for a bit, and I got some gifts for people, and a nifty camouflage zip-up sweater-coat-thing for me. =) It’s soft, and cosy. And it’s camo. Heh. I told mom that when she goes to do her Christmas shopping, I’d go with her, so that’ll be fun.

I’m mostly done my shopping, just a very few more things to get.

  • Something for Papa Shearer from Peter
  • Something for Papa Smith from Peter
  • Something for Dave from Peter
  • Something for Cady from Peter
  • Something for Dad Smith from me
  • A toy for a 3-year-old girl, from the Angel Tree
  • A toy for a 10-year-old boy, from the Angel Tree

I can likely get that stuff when Mom and I go shopping again. =) Then, I just have to wrap it all. Ugh!

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